I am deleting another 5 people from my facebook.
For most of them it is pretty easy to do. Either we were never close friends in real life or we did not pay much attention to each other on facebook. I guess some form of feedback is key. If we are not interested in each others lives enough to talk to each other then having your updates on my list is pretty useless.
As is having my updates on yours. I am interested in maintaining only those relationships that are mutual and reciprocal.
1 in particular was difficult however and I had to give it some thought. It was kind of a long time coming so it should not surprise me. But I still hesitated until I was sure.
What is it I want to say?
I am not sure actually.
I have decided to finally cut you off for good.
I am relatively certain you will never read this. In the last few years we almost never talked. I would like to say that it is all because of you and your lack of interest and effort. However I know that I could have made 100% of the effort in our friendship. But then that is not really a friend ship. I know that in the end you realized that as well. I am also pretty sure that it is guilt that prevents you from trying to fix things. Anyone can make 1000 excuses. I was busy with/because ___________ .
As I previous wrote in my Tips series that is just unacceptable. Ah the joys of facebook social networking and the internet. I can precisely value my worth to people. It should not take 6 months to reply to an email especially when you got one every 2 months in that 6 month period. You are very clearly demonstrating my importance to you. You have time to comment on photos and take surveys about cats and update your status, twitter, or whatever else you do. Shit piss and fart. But I am not valuable enough to even be acknowledged as being alive.
It is sad when virtual friends are even better friends than real life ones.
I tried to accommodate you. I even joined facebook to communicate with you because you said you had given up on MSN and although you said you would primarily communicate via email we know how well that worked out.
I am tired of being sad about you. It isn’t your fault. I was the one who accepted you into my life for this long knowing what you were like. I invited this pain into my life. I don’t even know why anymore. However I have decided it’s not worth it. Not for any reason.
I am not going to mail this to you. I have already faded out of your life. This communication isn’t even necessary. We both know what happened.
What is even more funny is you added 3 friends and updated your facebook status while I was typing this.
Because the email I sent you last week was obviously less important.
I was really happy sometimes but in the end there were more sad moments than happy ones.
Streamlining my life to be as joyous as possible is my mission now.
You no longer have a place in it.
Thank you for the memories and the moments of hope I had.









